New retreat center director comes full circle

By Becky Aubut
Anchor Staff
beckyaubut@anchornews.org

ATTLEBORO, Mass. — When Father Bernard Baris, M.S., was named director of La Salette’s Retreat Center in Attleboro last May, he found himself back in familiar territory.

“Ever since I could remember, I wanted to become a priest,” recalled Father Baris. “My grandparents used to come every Sunday to the shrine, be part of the Liturgy processions and all that, and so I grew up hearing nothing but La Salette. When it came time for me to make a decision to follow my vocation into the priesthood, it was natural that I would be part of La Salette.”

Father Baris entered the seminary out of high school and found himself back in Attleboro after being ordained in 1969, when he was assigned to the shrine’s retreat center that had been built five years earlier in 1964.

Of his time at the retreat center, Father Baris said, “It was a whole different world. We had high schools coming, having retreats one after another; all would be coming in for two-night retreats. We had five priests here and the retreats were all our own retreats, our own programs. There were a lot of Catholic high schools — from Worcester, from Boston — and they were all coming in for their retreats. We had Cursillos; it was a very busy place. 

Father Baris was only at the retreat center for nine months before being assigned to a high school in New Hampshire to become its admissions director and part of its summer camp staff. Additional assignments of Father Baris included becoming pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Lebanon, N.H., for nine years, and pastor of Our Lady of the Cape Parish in Brewster for 17 years.

He also spent two years at the Shrine of Our Lady of La Salette in La Salette, France, where in 2015, he was named its director.

“We are missionaries of Our Lady of La Salette, and I think being there where the apparition took place, for two full years and seeing the thousands of people who come there from all over the world, it’s unbelievable,” he said. “Even the staff and volunteers; at any given time we’d have 100 volunteers there from 11 different countries.

“My first month there was in March. This was 6,000 feet up in the French Alps, and there was some snow. We looked out the window and there were two buses out there from Indonesia. When I think of Indonesia, I think of Moslems; but there are some Catholics, apparently. [Even though we were closed] we welcomed them in.”

Father Baris returned to the states in December 2016, and is not only the director of the retreat center, he is also serving as director of fund-raising of La Salette Missionary Association.

“This is new,” said Father Baris, of seeing the retreat center almost 48 years after his initial nine-month assignment back in 1969, and values his secretary when she guides him through the day-to-day aspects of the center.

“Thank goodness for secretaries,” he said, laughing.

He knew the retreat center had seen a shift in its design. Groups now come in with their own programs and presenters, and simply rent out the retreat’s facilities. 

In comparison from how the retreat center was during his initial run shortly after he was ordained: “There aren’t as many Catholic high schools. Those that still exist, they come for day retreats,” said Father Baris. “More people come in now with their own priests. Like for instance, last week we had 33 diocesan priests from Fall River, and came here for a workshop. A couple weeks from now there will be deacons from the Diocese of Providence.”

Father Baris also has a foothold in the shrine, and appreciates the philosophy of the retreat house and shrine: “It’s not just Mass, it’s Confessions. We do a lot of Confessions. Last December we heard 2,500 Confessions. It’s unbelievable.”

Having spent more than half his priesthood in fund raising and finances, Father Baris has a wealth of knowledge he’s bringing to his role as director, including the unresolved matter the shrine faced with the city of Attleboro over paying taxes.

“We want to be good neighbors with Attleboro, there’s no question about that,” said Father Baris, who kept an eye on the court battle, and stated it’s still not settled yet. “Attleboro still owes us $300,000 from taxes we’ve already paid. They still haven’t paid and we may have to go back to court to settle it. We don’t have that kind of money, and when you’re talking about $100,000 a year for taxes, and we have to beg for money. We live on our donations.”

Father Baris said the retreat center hasn’t been immune to the daily struggles of covering rising costs: “You cannot charge [a lot] for a weekend. What we charge for a weekend doesn’t cover our costs. That’s why a lot of retreat houses are closing. You have to keep it full. It’s not just booking rooms but it’s presenting good, Spiritual programs that are attractive to people.”

“It’s a different world,” he said, adding that his small staff had an upcoming meeting to discuss new ways to approach 2018, with new retreats that had a more Spiritual direction. Along with a religious Sister, Father Baris has two lay people who work full-time, and have been an invaluable resource. 

“Forty-eight years ago we didn’t have the lay people trained in theology,” said Father Baris. “That was rare that a layperson would do theology. Today, we have staff members who are excellent. This is the age of the laity.”

Some of the ideas for new programs include a mother/daughter retreat; a focus on Scripture; facing the challenges of parenthood using faith as a guide; and there will be more day programs, instead of overnight retreats, said Father Baris.

“We’ve been brainstorming things we can possibly do and offer for 2018,” he said. “I think there were only two weekends free during 2017, and that’s part of the problem. Weekends fill up because people don’t work, but to find things during the week, [it’s hard] to find groups free during the week. We listen to people and their needs. It’s easier for people to come for a one-day experience. 

During a recent trip to a retreat house in Maine, Father Baris scooped up different brochures to see what that retreat house was offering: “We’re no competition; they’re up there and we’re down here. It was interesting to find out what they were doing, and the name of presenters they have coming in. If it’s good for them, it’s probably good for us too.

“It’s probably going to take me a whole year to digest all this. You have to listen to the people. Right now we’ve revamped the questionnaire we give out, [asking] what do you want? What do you need? What are your suggestions?”

For a list of current and upcoming programs at the La Salette Retreat House, see below.
Suggestions for programs at the retreat house are always welcome: office@lasaletteretreatcenter.com, or call 508-222-8530.


La Salette Retreat and Conference Center, 947 Park Street, Attleboro, Mass. 02703-5155
For more information: 508-222-8530, Website: www.lasaletteretreatcenter.com

 

BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT GROUP: Meets bi-monthly on Tuesdays 10:00-11:30 a.m.; facilitated by Dorothy Levesque; dates for the remaining 2017 calendar year — September 5, 19; October 3, 17; November 14, 28; December 12, 19. 

GRIEF EDUCATION PROGRAMS (2017-2018)
: Facilitated by Sister Judith Costa, S.S.D., M.Div.; Monday evenings 6:30-8:00 p.m.; dates for 2017 are as follows … September 14, October 23, November 13, and December 11; dates for 2018 are as follows: January 22, February 12, March 19, April 23, May 21, and June 11.

SUPPORT GROUP FOR SEPARATED AND DIVORCED
: Meetings are on Tuesdays 7:00-8:30 p.m.; held in the lounge at the retreat center; dates for the remaining 2017 calendar year — August 29; September 12, 26; October 10, 24; November 7, 21; and December 5, 19. 

PRAYER SHAWL MINISTRY
: Meetings take place on Tuesdays 1:15-2:45 p.m. with Dorothy Levesque; dates for the remaining 2017 calendar year are September 5, October 3, November 14 and December 12.

September 15-17, 2017
: La Salette Triduum: 171st anniversary of the Apparition of Our Lady at La Salette France. On September 15 at 6:30 p.m., there will be a Mass with renewal of promises by La Salette lay associates; September 16 will have a 4:30 p.m. Mass with Bishop Robert Reed of Boston Catholic Television; September 17 will have a concluding Mass at 12:10 p.m. All are welcome to attend.

September 30 — October 1, 2017
: “With Empty Hands” is an overnight retreat into the feast day of St. Therese of the Child Jesus and the Holy Face to be led by Anna Rae-Kelly. Retreat participants will be drawn into St. Therese’s doctrine of childhood. Cost is $110 and it includes retreat, accommodation for one night and three meals. 

October 7, 2017
: International Marian Festival will be celebrating the 100th anniversary of Our Lady’s Apparition at Fatima from 10:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. All are welcome to attend.

October 18, 2017
: “A Journey to Peace: Moving through Loss and Grief” is a day retreat from 9:30 a.m.-4:30 p.m. facilitated by Peggy Patenaude. The goal is to help participants move through his or her loss with courage, hope and confidence. Cost is $55 and includes lunch; overnight accommodations and a continental breakfast are available for an additional $50. Deadline for registration is October 13. For more information contact Peggy at 508-548-9149 or timeoutretreats@comcast.net.

October 21, 2017
: “The Spiritual Journey: a Process of Transformation,” will be a day of recollection with Father Albert Haase, OFM. With his distinctively inspirational style, Father Albert will explore the dynamics of this Spiritual transformation. Cost is $25 (lunch will be provided) and will be held at the retreat center from 9:00 a.m. – 5 p.m. 



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